Okay, this is one fetish I just can’t wrap my brain around, well not entirely. And it’s also very hard to find where you cross the line from older man/younger woman to father/daughter. I know, I know. I can just hear all the responses I’ll get to that comment. The truth is, it really is hard to tell. This fetish can take one of two turns. It can simply be an age difference where the male takes a dominant sexual role over a (much) younger woman, usually between the age of 18 and 21. But sometimes it takes an illegal turn. I was unfortunate enough to get a slippery client that changed his fantasy in the middle of the call. It started innocently enough; the client referred to himself as an older man with a preference for younger women. No big deal, I can do that. It went something like this:
Him “So, how old are you?”
Me *giggle* “18,” *giggle*
Him “Mmm, I like ’em young.”
Me “Oh, you don’t sound that old to me…”
Him “Well, I’m 46. I’m old enough to be your father. Doesn’t that bother you?”
Me “No! I like older men.”
You get the idea. The conversation went back and forth for a minute or two and then turned steamy. The client was most interested in how young he imagined my body looked against his and then he began with the “Who’s your Daddy?” comments. Again, nothing unusual until halfway into the fantasy he asks, “You want to get in the shower with me?” Before I can say anything in response he continues with, “Mommy will never know.” Boing! Up went the huge red flag. Crap! How do I get out of it now? According to my contract it clearly states that I’m not allowed to participate in an illegal conversation. Well, what have I been doing up to this point?!? I later found out that if a client changes the topic to taboo, you don’t have to worry. But you can’t use that excuse if you really don’t have a problem with taboo subjects or even encourage them. Most companies record all the calls to protect both their clients and their employees. So what did I do? I pulled out of the conversation as much as possible and simply shut down on him. Maybe I should have hit my mute button to simulate that I hung up on him, or stated quite clearly that I wasn’t comfortable with the conversation. I let him do all the talking and just moaned or sighed whenever I thought it was appropriate. You can hit the mute button; the client will just keep talking until they realize you’re not responding anymore. Or you can say you are no longer comfortable with the fantasy. In my experience, this seems to excite the client even more and they go out of their way to keep going. It’s suddenly a reversal where they apologize for making you uncomfortable then go right back to the taboo topic. I’m not writing this simply to freak anyone out, I’m telling you how to use it to your advantage. After all, most PSOs get paid by the minute, and the more minutes, the better for you. Once the conversation hits a point where you really can’t take it anymore just hit your mute button. Usually, the client knows you’re still there, and then they get down right pissed. Let the insults fly, and they will. No matter how much you may want to, most contracts won’t allow you to insult a client unless it’s a specific request. This is where most PSOs lose their nerve and decide they really can’t stick it out. So what do I do? Light a cigarette and let a few of my own insults fly. Even though the client can’t hear me and I’m not being recorded it still makes me feel better. It also helps if you realize that the client just sounds more like a whiny child than an adult. Pretty soon they get tired of insulting you (or the air really) and they hang up. Then it’s on to the next client, and hopefully a better conversation.