As a phone actress you get to work on the fringes of that elusive industry without actually exposing yourself, unless you choose to. Some women see this as simply a way to make money, and it is. But for some it’s a little more. There are no awards for phone actresses, but to the clients we please we are the girls they never dreamed they could talk to. The longer I do this, the more I realize that I’m not far off my mark. I’m not just a pretty voice on the line, I’m a verbal sexual fantasy. But my life is my own and I don’t have to worry about stalkers – much better, even if the pay isn’t. But the more pressing matter isn’t so much the fact that I do work in the adult entertainment industry, it’s how do I flip that switch from mom/wife to vixen/slut? It’s not the easiest thing to do, I don’t have to strut around in my perfection – Ha! – for my adoring public constantly, but it still takes a little work. Nope, nothing glamorous happens much to a phone sex operator. To create new fantasies I regularly peruse porn magazines that are normally reserved for the male population. Pouring over letters and pictures that I can use to describe sexual encounters during my phone calls. It also helps if you’re somewhat familiar with porn movies. Many clients call for that personal touch while they’re watching one of the many skin flicks that makes some porn stars legendary. All of my interest in porn would probably make the man in my life thrilled if I included him in my “research”. The truth is, I really don’t. I often watch and read and take mental notes, but there is really very little true enjoyment for me. I’m too busy repeating the noises the girls make, memorizing new and sexy phrases and trying to describe the myriad of positions splayed across the pages of Hustler. This is how I mentally prepare myself to stand up to iconic images of client’s fantasies with only my voice. It goes even farther than that though. Attitude is everything and if you’re not in the right frame of mind you have no hope of keeping clients interested. It took me a while to really open my mind to the sexual side of humans. While I don’t bring many ideas from my calls into the bedroom, it has allowed to be less judgemental of others. What once would have turned me off, I now accept with hardly a blink. Being able to think quickly and turn a shy awkward confession into a sultry fantasy takes some practice, but if you familiarize yourself with sex in general, you’ll find it gets easier. It also helps if you can enjoy your own sexual side without setting any judgements on yourself. The public does that enough for us, you don’t need to do it yourself.